Imagine the following scenario:
You are getting on in years and your children have
grown up and married. Your son now has three children of his
own and these grandchildren mean almost everything in the world to you. You see
them regularly, you babysit them frequently, and you delight in watching
them grow up.
Then one day you discover that your son and his wife
are getting a
divorce. There is a battle over custody, and your son
loses. His ex-wife is forced to allow your son regular visits, but
because of the bitterness the
divorce has created, she will no longer
let you even see your grandchildren. What is more, you begin to suspect
that the children are not being properly looked after; you want to help,
but you have been completely cut out of their lives.
Unfortunately, situations like this are not as
uncommon as you might think. You might find it difficult at your age to
put yourself into the position of grandparents in this sort of
situation, but the effects can be devastating on them.